14 Mar, 2010 in D-Group Discussion by

Are your relationships Christ-centered?

In today’s message (listen here), Danny talked about the importance of having Christ-centered relationships. Our temptation is to build our relationships around activities or the things we have in common. The church, however, is more than a club. Therefore, as Christians, our relationships are based on the gospel.

As Deluge, I think this is a great discussion point for us. As I’ve thought about how we could make application, my question is this: are your relationships Christ-centered? When you are with friends, do you mainly interact around various activities, or do you encourage and challenge one another in the gospel?

This can be a hard question to answer, because we all know the right answer. The trick, however, is going deeper than the surface and the “right” things to say and getting down to what really matters to us. As a follow up to Danny’s message, the next time you’re with friends, ask them this question: “Is our relationship Christ-centered or merely based on activites and the stuff we like to do?”

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  1. Courtney Cooke - Gravatar

    Courtney Cooke  |  March 14th, 2010 at 1:03 pm #

    Jesse, Thank you for this reminder! Indeed His sermon provoked me to be asking more questions of myself as well! I can’t wait to dig deep in my own heart and life and see just what my relationships are centered on, I am also anticipating some great conversations with my fellow “delugers” (you can add that one to the dictionary… or not haha) ;)

  2. Jesse - Gravatar

    Jesse  |  March 14th, 2010 at 2:05 pm #

    I’m glad you were provoked by the message. These types of messages really hit us close to home and make us challenge the way we think about things. I can’t wait to see the fruit it produces in my life and in Deluge as well.

  3. Ariel Subrahmanyam - Gravatar

    Ariel Subrahmanyam  |  March 15th, 2010 at 10:53 am #

    Thanks for posting Jesse! I am so glad that our Church is talking more about relationships. I have grown up all my life with just my sisters and my cousins as friends so I never really learned how to be a friend (just a sister). This is a topic that I have much to learn about and it has been such a blessing to have teaching to on such things. :D

  4. Jesse - Gravatar

    Jesse  |  March 15th, 2010 at 12:20 pm #

    You’re welcome, Ariel. The relationships in your family are enough to keep you busy, I’m sure.

  5. Bruce - Gravatar

    Bruce  |  May 21st, 2010 at 12:58 am #

    I’m glad you were provoked by the message. These types of messages really hit us close to home and make us challenge the way we think about things. I can’t wait to see the fruit it produces in my life and in Deluge as well.

  6. Bruce - Gravatar

    Bruce  |  May 22nd, 2010 at 2:14 am #

    Jesse, Thank you for this reminder! Indeed His sermon provoked me to be asking more questions of myself as well! I can’t wait to dig deep in my own heart and life and see just what my relationships are centered on, I am also anticipating some great conversations with my fellow “delugers” (you can add that one to the dictionary… or not haha) ;)

  7. Steve - Gravatar

    Steve  |  May 28th, 2010 at 9:14 pm #

    Thanks for posting Jesse! I am so glad that our Church is talking more about relationships. I have grown up all my life with just my sisters and my cousins as friends so I never really learned how to be a friend (just a sister). This is a topic that I have much to learn about and it has been such a blessing to have teaching to on such things. :D

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